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primary reason that we created this website was to help people who have
questions or want information about Florida funerals home, funeral
flowers and cemeteries. |
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When
should the floral tribute be sent?
Often a family will be available to receive visitors and condolences at
the funeral home the evening before the service. Generally, flowers are
sent prior to the funeral service for this visitation. However, most
funeral directors will accept flowers up to one hour prior to the
scheduled service time. If you would like to send your floral tribute
directly to the family's home you may do so anytime, including after
the services are complete. |
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Should I send flowers
to the church, funeral home, cemetery or family home?
Most flowers are sent to the funeral home. The funeral directors will
transport the floral tributes to either the cemetery or the family's
home depending on the wishes of the family. Many churches now accept
floral tributes when there are no formal services being held at a
funeral home. However, most prefer floral tributes be delivered to the
funeral home when possible. Floral tributes are only sent directly to
the cemetery if there is no visitation or formal services prior to
burial. Floral tributes may be sent directly to the family's home
anytime, including after the services are complete. This is often done
when you are notified of their loss after the services are complete or
when they have attended services out-of-town. |
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Is
it appropriate to send a floral tribute to a co-worker at work?
Yes. This is a wonderful way to offer condolences and support,
especially when the co-worker has been away attending funeral services
out-of-town.
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Should
I send a basket or a standing easel spray?
Either are appropriate and appreciated. Traditionally, easel sprays are
sent by family members, companies, and those closest to the deceased.
While standing easels are large and showy you may keep in mind where
the flowers are going when making your selection. If there will not be
a burial you may want to select a basket so the family may continue to
enjoy the flowers following the services. If the floral tribute will be
on display for an extended period of time we also recommend a basket
because it contains a larger water source for the flowers. However,
there are no formal rules. This is your opportunity to send a tribute
to the deceased and is a highly personal choice. |
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What
is the difference between a funeral arrangement and a funeral basket?
Generally they mean the same thing. However, most arrangements are made
in a wicker basket. |
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Can I
send a floral tribute in a vase?
Traditionally, vased floral arrangements should be sent directly to the
family home. However, we have recently seen an increase in requests for
vased arrangements, including dozen rose vases, sent to the funeral
home. While florists are equipped to transport vased arrangements, many
funeral directors are not. Vased arrangements are rarely transported to
the cemetery for burial services. Most are delivered to the family home
by the funeral director following services. |
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What
is the difference between a wreath and a standing easel spray?
In many parts of the country these terms refer to the same type of
floral tribute. Technically, a wreath is circular shaped and can be
covered with flowers, ribbon, or greenery. Wreaths are most popular in
the Northeastern states in the U.S.
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What
should be sent for a military service?
Any floral tribute is appropriate. However, you may want to request
flowers and/or ribbons be done in red, white, and blue or have a flag
included when the deceased is affiliated with the military, a fire
department, or public safety organization. |
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Can I put a
Ribbon/Banner on my floral tribute?
Yes. Common sentiments include "Rest in Peace", "Loving Mother /
Father", "Beloved Grandmother / Grandfather", etc. |
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Can I
still send flowers if the obituary says "in lieu of flowers"?
Occasionally, the family requests this phrase in their obituary. More
often than not, the funeral directors are sending a form letter to the
newspaper that includes the "in lieu of flowers" phrase and the family
did not make this specific request. While making a donation to charity
is a wonderful way to honor the deceased, flowers are always an
appropriate and appreciated sympathy tribute as well. |
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What
do you recommend sending other than floral tributes?
Fruit Baskets, Gourmet Food Baskets, and Baked Goods Baskets are often
welcome sympathy tributes. We recommend sending these directly to the
family home.
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What
if I do not know the deceased name or want to deliver to a specific
family member?
Often you are not directly associated with the deceased, but are
sending a floral tribute to someone in the family. The florist will
need to know the deceased last name in order to ensure your floral
tribute is received as intended. Often floral tributes are sent to "The
Family of John Smith" or "The Smith Family". If you would like to send
them to a specific family member you may sent them to "Mary Jones c/o
The Family of John Smith" or include a message on the card such as
"Mary, our thoughts are with you and your family". |
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What
is the difference between funeral services and memorial services?
Often the terms are often used to mean the same thing. Generally,
funeral services means the deceased is present and services include
burial/interment. A memorial service is held when this is not the case,
such as when the deceased is cremated. |
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Should
I send flowers if there will be no burial?
Yes. However, we recommend you notify the florist so a floral tribute
can be designed that will be appropriate for the family's home
following the services. Generally, the funeral directors transport the
flowers for the family following the services. |
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What
does "graveside services" mean?
Graveside services means that all services will be held at the cemetery
at the time of burial/interment directly at the grave site. Floral
tributes are delivered directly to the grave site the morning of the
services. |
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What does "private
services" or "private interment" mean and should I send flowers?
Private services are reserved for family only and those issued a
personal invitation. Floral tributes may be sent to the funeral home or
the family home. |
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What
is a Rosary Service?
A rosary service is a formal Catholic ritual performed the evening
prior to formal funeral services and burial. Usually held at the
funeral home, it is open to all who choose to attend. The family is
usually available at this time to receive visitors and condolences. The
rosary is often performed during the "vigil service" or "wake".
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What
is a Funeral Mass?
A funeral mass is a formal Catholic service performed prior to burial.
Usually held at a church, it is open to all who choose to attend,
unless specified as private. The family often proceeds directly to the
burial site following the mass. However, a funeral mass may be held in
memorial when burial/interment is not a part of their funeral service.
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What is a Vigil
Service?
A vigil service usually takes place during the period of visitation and
viewing at the funeral home. It is a time to remember the life of the
deceased and to commend him/her to God. It is open to all who choose to
attend. The family is usually available at this time to receive
visitors and condolences. It is often referred to as a wake.
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What
is a Wake?
A wake usually takes place during the period of visitation and viewing
at the funeral home. It is a time to remember the life of the deceased
and to commend him/her to God. It is open to all who choose to attend.
The family is usually available at this time to receive visitors and
condolences. It is often referred to as a vigil service.
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